There
is
a
moment
in
every
young
lawyer’s
career
when
the
noise
quiets
down
just
enough
for
an
uncomfortable
question
to
surface:
Is
this
it?
Is
this
the
firm,
the
practice,
the
path?
Or
am
I
drifting
wherever
the
current
takes
me?
Most
young
lawyers
do
not
consciously
choose
their
destiny.
They
accept
the
first
offer.
They
take
the
assignments
handed
to
them.
They
say
yes
to
whatever
lands
on
their
desk.
Five
years
pass.
Then
10.
And
one
day,
they
look
up
and
realize
they
have
built
a
career
by
default,
not
by
design.
You
can
practice
law
that
way.
Many
do.
But
if
you
want
to
build
a
meaningful,
sustainable
career,
you
must
determine
and
define
your
destiny
early.
Not
perfectly.
Not
rigidly.
But
intentionally.
Here
is
a
practical
10-point
plan
to
help
you
do
just
that.
1.
Decide
Who
You
Want
to
Become
Before
You
Decide
What
You
Want
to
Do
Most
young
lawyers
focus
on
titles
and
compensation.
Partner.
General
counsel.
Judge.
Seven-figure
book
of
business.
Start
somewhere
else.
Ask
yourself:
What
kind
of
lawyer
do
I
want
to
be
known
as?
Ethical.
Strategic.
Calm
under
fire.
A
rainmaker.
A
trial
lawyer.
A
trusted
advisor.
When
I
was
a
young
lawyer
watching
seasoned
trial
lawyers
try
cases,
I
did
not
just
admire
verdicts.
I
studied
demeanor.
Preparation.
Presence.
I
realized
I
wanted
to
be
the
kind
of
lawyer
juries
trusted.
That
clarity
shaped
every
deposition,
hearing,
and
trial
that
followed.
Define
the
lawyer
first.
The
rest
follows.
2.
Write
Down
a
10-Year
Vision
Ten
years
feels
distant
when
you
are
a
first
or
second-year
associate.
It
is
not.
Write
down
where
you
want
to
be
in
a
decade.
What
cases
are
you
handling?
Who
are
your
clients?
Are
you
leading
a
team?
Speaking
at
conferences?
Teaching?
Writing?
Be
specific.
Vague
goals
produce
vague
results.
If
you
want
to
try
cases,
your
10-year
vision
must
include
time
in
the
courtroom.
If
you
want
to
build
a
book
of
business,
it
must
include
relationships
and
visibility.
If
you
want
balance,
that
must
be
part
of
the
design.
You
cannot
steer
toward
something
you
have
not
described.
3.
Choose
Mentors
Intentionally
Mentorship
is
not
accidental.
It
is
selected.
If
you
want
to
be
a
great
trial
lawyer,
spend
time
with
trial
lawyers.
If
you
want
to
develop
a
business,
align
yourself
with
partners
who
bring
in
work
and
ask
how
they
do
it.
Early
in
my
career,
I
gravitated
toward
lawyers
who
were
not
only
skilled
but
generous
with
their
time.
I
watched
how
they
handled
clients,
judges,
and
opposing
counsel.
I
asked
questions.
I
listened
more
than
I
spoke.
Your
mentors
are
previews
of
possible
futures.
Choose
wisely.
4.
Treat
Every
Assignment
as
Training
for
Your
Ultimate
Role
Too
many
young
lawyers
see
early
work
as
busy
work.
It
is
not.
The
hearing
you
cover
on
an
hour’s
notice.
The
motion
you
draft
at
midnight.
The
deposition
you
think
no
one
cares
about.
These
are
repetitions.
And
repetitions
build
muscle.
When
I
was
handed
that
first
file
with
a
note
saying,
“Cover
this
hearing,”
it
was
not
glamorous.
But
it
was
mine.
I
prepared
as
if
it
mattered
because
it
did.
You
may
not
control
your
assignments.
You
do
control
your
preparation.
That
habit
compounds.
5.
Develop
One
Core
Skill
to
Mastery
General
competence
is
expected.
Mastery
is
rare.
Pick
one
skill
early
and
pursue
excellence
in
it.
Depositions.
Writing.
Oral
argument.
Client
counseling.
Jury
selection.
For
me,
depositions
became
foundational.
I
studied
them.
Adjusted
my
approach
and
learned
when
to
be
direct
and
when
to
let
a
witness
talk.
That
skill
translated
to
trials,
negotiations,
and
strategy.
Mastery
creates
confidence.
Confidence
creates
opportunity.
6.
Build
Relationships
Before
You
Need
Them
Your
destiny
will
depend
on
people.
Opposing
counsel
today
may
refer
you
to
a
case
tomorrow.
A
law
school
classmate
may
become
general
counsel.
A
colleague
may
later
hire
you.
Invest
in
relationships
without
an
immediate
transactional
purpose.
Have
coffee.
Attend
events.
Stay
in
touch.
Celebrate
others’
wins.
Careers
are
rarely
built
alone.
They
are
built
in
a
community.
7.
Understand
the
Business
of
Law
If
you
do
not
understand
how
your
firm
makes
money,
you
are
not
fully
steering
your
career.
Learn
how
matters
are
priced,
how
clients
are
acquired.
How
leverage
works.
How
write-offs
happen.
How
realization
rates
matter.
If
your
goal
is
partnership
or
leadership,
you
must
see
beyond
your
desk.
Ask
questions.
Volunteer
for
committees.
Pay
attention
to
client
development
efforts.
Law
is
a
profession.
It
is
also
a
business.
Ignoring
that
reality
limits
your
trajectory.
8.
Create
a
Personal
Brand
Based
on
Substance
Your
reputation
begins
forming
on
day
one.
Are
you
dependable?
Do
you
respond
quickly?
Are
your
drafts
clean?
Do
you
remain
calm
under
pressure?
Over
time,
you
may
also
speak,
write,
or
build
an
online
presence.
That
visibility
must
rest
on
competence.
Style
without
substance
collapses.
Your
brand
is
not
what
you
say
about
yourself;
it’s
what
they
say
about
you.
It
is
what
others
say
when
you
are
not
in
the
room.
Be
intentional
about
earning
the
right
reputation.
9.
Embrace
Discomfort
as
a
Signal
There
is
a
point
in
every
meaningful
pursuit
where
it
becomes
too
hard,
too
time-consuming,
too
risky.
That
is
where
many
stop.
That
inflection
point
is
often
the
doorway
to
growth.
The
first
time
you
speak
publicly,
you
may
stumble.
The
first
time
you
take
a
difficult
deposition,
you
may
second-guess
yourself.
The
first
time
you
ask
for
business,
you
may
feel
exposed.
Lean
into
it.
Discomfort
is
often
evidence
that
you
are
expanding,
not
failing.
If
you
want
an
uncommon
career,
you
must
tolerate
uncommon
discomfort.
10.
Revisit
and
Refine
Your
Plan
Annually
Destiny
is
not
static.
It
evolves.
Each
year,
step
back
and
assess.
Are
you
moving
toward
your
10-year
vision?
Has
your
vision
changed?
Are
you
acquiring
the
skills
and
relationships
you
need?
If
you
realize
you
are
drifting,
correct
course.
Small
adjustments
early
prevent
major
regret
later.
You
are
not
locked
into
one
path.
But
you
are
responsible
for
steering.
Different
Paths,
Same
Intentionality
Some
of
you
will
become
specialists.
You
will
dive
deeply
into
one
area
and
become
the
go-to
authority.
Others
will
be
generalists.
You
will
handle
a
variety
of
matters
and
become
versatile
problem
solvers.
Some
will
stay
in
firms.
Others
will
move
in-house.
Some
will
start
their
own
practices.
There
is
no
single
correct
path.
The
common
denominator
is
intentionality.
The
lawyer
who
consciously
chooses
to
be
a
specialist
and
pursues
it
with
focus
will
likely
thrive.
The
lawyer
who
intentionally
builds
a
broad
base
and
leverages
it
will
also
thrive.
The
lawyer
who
drifts
without
reflection
often
wonders,
years
later,
how
they
arrived
somewhere
they
never
meant
to
go.
Circling
Back
Remember
that
quiet
moment
when
you
asked
yourself,
Is
this
it?
It
does
not
have
to
be.
Your
first
employer
does
not
assign
your
destiny
as
a
lawyer,
your
first
setback,
or
your
first
success.
It
is
shaped
by
your
habits,
your
mentors,
your
courage,
and
your
willingness
to
define
what
you
want
and
pursue
it
deliberately.
Do
not
wake
up
10
years
from
now
surprised
by
your
own
career.
Define
it.
Write
it
down.
Work
toward
it.
Adjust
when
needed.
Stay
disciplined.
Stay
curious.
Stay
humble.
And
when
that
quiet
question
surfaces
again,
you
will
not
hear
doubt.
You
will
hear
directions.
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